Stuck? Ask this Question by Rochelle Melander
To avoid criticism, say nothing, do nothing, be nothing. —Aristotle
No one loves criticism, rejection, or failure. But if you’re going to be a writer, you’re going to get a hefty dose of all three. Expecting it doesn’t make it easier. Every time I encounter one of these roadblocks, I stumble. I want to eat chocolate, drink wine, and wallow in self-pity. And that’s just fine—for a day. But a steady diet of self-pity won’t help you move forward.
Next time you experience criticism, rejection, or failure, ask: what’s next? Then do it. Take one step forward. Just one. Send out a query letter, write a blog post, sign up for a writing class. Do anything to stay in the game. In time, the sting that comes with criticism, rejection, or failure will fade. You will move forward, toward success.
This couldn’t have come at a better time. I suffered a setback at work today, but your blog post gives me hope. I can take one step forward! Thanks.
Good to hear!